I never thought I would be writing about this topic. I tend to avoid this topic because there is so much stuff on youtube about it or controversy in general. However I received a heart felt email from a woman who was seeking clarification. She read my Twin -flame Blog and was moved my certainty. Due to the confusion and heartache this topic tends to cause so many I will share my insights in the hope of assisting others. To affirm whether or not you found your Twin/ Soulmate.
1.)You just know: I do believe that many people project the Twin or Soulmate archetype onto others and this is the ultimate cause of the controversy. If your attraction or desire comes from a place anywhere other that unconditional love than it is worth questioning. Do you love that person without question? Is this stemming from your heart or a need to feel love? To fulfill a current life plan or idea you are clinging to? Are you willing to embrace your suffering and let them go because your unconditional love for them is greater then the needs of your Ego? My suggestion: Sit with the emotion. Do not think about the individual. Bring the feeling to your chest, open that heart chakra. What does it tell you? Your Spirit recognize the spirit of this other person. If this is the case in your situation then one can deduce you would be lead here or to youtube initially. Your mind is trying to rationalize this strange phenomenal feeling and it seeks validation/ assurances. I haven’t actually met mine and I am confident enough now to write a Blog telling others how to know when they find theirs. I just know in my heart.
2.) Ask and observe: I asked my Heart (higher-self, Spirit, etc), spirit guides, God, etc. I then observed synchronicities. You may be learning that synchronicities are projections of our own thoughts and desires. Therefore can they be trusted. Yes they can. They are confirmations that your path is in alignment with your Heart and Souls desire. Your highest-path. I would notice if I am thinking about mine I see 717, 1111 repeating numbers. Do not focus on manifesting these things, just allow it and be mindful when they occur. They helped you realize when you first Awakened and now they are helping you recognize your Twin.
3.) Your entire sexuality becomes focused on one single Human Being: This may not occur right out the gate. We have some deep rooted sexual issues but this will begin draw those to the surface. Eventually, not long for me, this individual seems to be the only one capable of arousing you sexually. You don’t need to force this, it just happens naturally. Try to think of a woman or man you were once attracted too. Its better if this other person was only physically attractive to you. Try to imagine being intimate or having sex with this person. If this process is difficult or unnatural in any way, guess what? You have discovered your Twin. So what do you do now?
4.) You Dream about them during the day and night: You have lucid dreams about the individual in question. You see yourselves on a beach you have never been to before. They are sometimes so lucid/ surreal you can actually feel their touch, kiss etc. You hear their laugh and have conversation. You daydream/ imagine them knocking on your front door. You have moments where you can see them in your minds eye. Simultaneously you feel them in your chest/ heart chakra. You may get chills. Its as if there soul is present with you and you somehow know that they are experience the same feeling. You realize you are linked energetically at those moments.
5.) Kundalini Exacerbation: One classic sign is a sexual awakening or Kundalini awakening/ exacerbation. This could be delayed or immediate. As you shift and release/ do your inner work than you can expect kunadlini to fire up. This is a difficult time but an incredibly beneficial one too. See my other blogs/ videos on Kundalini for more info.
Word of advice, Just Chill! this is the best advice you will find I promise you. Process the emotions you are dealing with and do not try and force the outcome. Like everything on your spiritual journey the advice is the same and it is the only advice that ever leads you to what you truly desire. Have Trust and Faith in God/ the Universe. The weirdness and emotions will settle and dissipate. Whether the person is your Twin or not you will be OK. You will see this when you stop trying to force it. It does not need forcing. If you are corresponding in anyway then keep in mind the mirroring concept. They will show you what you need to work on. Remember the point is to do the introspection, release blockages/ old traumas and dramas. This is how you get closer to union.
Hope this helps and please comment if you want me to write about anything specific.
Love and Empathy